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Post by aimee. on Nov 3, 2009 23:56:51 GMT -5
hey everyone, how is everyone here? im hoping good =] anyways I am a senior this year at my highschool and allready its turning into shit, when I should be enjoying my last year here at this highschool. Its not the grades but my friends. I have been friends with this one girl emily since 6th grade and we have been drifting apart from each other this year. It makes me sad bc I feel like she just wants to throw ay a good 6 year friendship. Shes been hanging out with a good friend of ours, but I feel like she never wants to hang with me anymore. Like never. She used to text me everyday and now I get nothing from her at all. shes starting to also kind of get that attitude that she is cool then anyone else. I just dont know what to do or say. Like I feel like i should confront her and then I feel like I shouldnt bring drama into it. help =/ I just am so upset, like you have no clue how sad I am right now. please I know all of you a great here and maybe you can help me.
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Post by renapetes on Nov 4, 2009 0:12:22 GMT -5
Sadly that is what it is like in HS, you drift ay from friends, everyone has different plans, and frankly, there is probably gonna be people you never see again after HS even good friends, it sucks and it hurts for hile, but you will meet new people, make new friends...my best friend in HS became my worst enemy after HS, now we say hi if we see each other, my BFF and I met out of HS we worked together and have been friends for 8 years now, we've been though marriages, kids...all together!! I reconnected with a few friends from HS at our reunion and on FB but none of those friendships compare to the one I have with Jill now:) So hang in there, maybe she just needs some time ay to realize what she's missing, give her space.
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Post by aimee. on Nov 4, 2009 0:27:07 GMT -5
allright thank you so much. yeah I know allot of ppl drift ay after highschool. it sucks.
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Post by renapetes on Nov 4, 2009 0:29:45 GMT -5
It does but it gets better and in the words of Hinder, "The best is yet to come" and its soo true!!")
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Post by aimee. on Nov 4, 2009 0:33:23 GMT -5
omg dude it so is. speaking of the devil just texted me now saying can we talk. ahh im like nervous to talk.
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Post by renapetes on Nov 4, 2009 0:45:23 GMT -5
Good Luck let us know what happens!!! I'm nervous for you!!
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Post by sgirlforever on Nov 4, 2009 19:54:40 GMT -5
good luck!  it'll work its self out girl dont worry!! |
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Post by aimee. on Nov 4, 2009 23:45:19 GMT -5
so yeah my friend and I didnt speak at all today. well actually a meer two seconds she gave me my calculator and I said thank you. thats all. i guess we really are just gonna end. =[
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Post by ♡ dsangel ♓ on Nov 5, 2009 15:11:10 GMT -5
This sounds like a situation I had happen in school. My best friend of 6 years and I had a falling out late in our Jr. year. Prior to that we were together almost constantly ~ no exaggeration either, we did everything together. But she was dating someone who was different and I was okay with it, but we drifted apart and then we fought. Not loud, nasty name calling fights, but sneaky, putting things in lockers and snide comments to other people fights. It was really hard, but believe it or not by the end of our Senior year we had taken the time to actually sit down and talk and we were at least on speaking terms when we graduated. Now, years later, we're still close. We don't talk all the time or even see each other a lot, but we're closer than we were for years. So good luck, remember life is too short to be too unhappy for very long. Give each other some space, don't push and maybe you'll reconnect before long. Think positive girl.  Nice seeing you here again too. |
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Post by aimee. on Nov 5, 2009 23:28:49 GMT -5
This sounds like a situation I had happen in school. My best friend of 6 years and I had a falling out late in our Jr. year. Prior to that we were together almost constantly ~ no exaggeration either, we did everything together. But she was dating someone who was different and I was okay with it, but we drifted apart and then we fought. Not loud, nasty name calling fights, but sneaky, putting things in lockers and snide comments to other people fights. It was really hard, but believe it or not by the end of our Senior year we had taken the time to actually sit down and talk and we were at least on speaking terms when we graduated. Now, years later, we're still close. We don't talk all the time or even see each other a lot, but we're closer than we were for years. So good luck, remember life is too short to be too unhappy for very long. Give each other some space, don't push and maybe you'll reconnect before long. Think positive girl. Nice seeing you here again too. thanks ds =] yeah i might just give her some space for right now and maybe on facebook ill send her a message or something. |
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Post by ~C*I*A*T~ on Nov 5, 2009 23:49:42 GMT -5
keep in mind to that people change girlie and as others have said people drift apart, my bff that i have had for the last ten years didnt grow up where i did, actually she was my boss and we hit it off. she is my concert buddy and knows everything about me. i also have ONE friend left from high school that i talk to on a daily basis. hang in there, it will work out in the end
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Post by BlowersSugarMomma on Nov 7, 2009 18:15:52 GMT -5
Friends either grow with you or you grow apart but that doesn't mean you can't get back together. Anything is possible.
Aimee, just give her some time and focus on yourself and your other friends. Life is way too short to be angry.
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Post by googoodollsfan on Nov 7, 2009 18:27:00 GMT -5
I hope that you and her remain friends.......especially since you've known each other so long. Kind of reminds me of me and one of my friends, Alex. She and I were new to the school the same year, and kind of connnected because of it. She was my best friend since 7th,....then we came to the H.S, and she started to hang with a different crowd, and I never really see her anymore. We still say hi every once and a while, but its not the same. Hopefully you can find a way to 'rekindle' your friendship with her. Good luck!! |
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Post by aimee. on Nov 8, 2009 4:03:33 GMT -5
Thanks everyone. Ill see what happens. And the sad thing is, I mean the real sad thing is that I really only have one best friend and only friend who I really hang out with. My three other best friends don't go to my school one lives in pa now, one is in wrestling school and the other is just a mommas boy, legit lol
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Nice seeing you here again too.
